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{"all women are prostitutes" he says}
|what does that make men, then?|

whores and sluts.
the difference?

whores do it for money.
for cash.
for glamour.
for something in return.

but sluts
do it because they want to
not because they need to,
because they enjoy it.
which is worse? it really is your decision.

i was talking to my father the other day.
it was a casual thing.
and we happened to be talking about,
[guess what?]
whores and sluts.
he thinks that all women are prostitutes.
[please do not take any offense,
he is just an old man
voicing out his opinion.
and i am female,
will soon become a woman.
so i should be offended,
but i was not.
however, that does not mean
i fully agree with him.]

before you complain
and whine about how stupid that comment is,
just listen to his explanation.

and it is his opinion.
his view.
and although he may be biased
because of what he has experienced,
he believes it.

now the definition of a prostitute
(according to wiktionary)
is :

prostitute (plural prostitutes)

A person who performs sexual activity for payment
A person who is perceived as engaging in sexual activity with many people.
A person who does, or offers to do, an activity for money, despite personal dislike or dishonour

take a close look at the very first line :
A person who performs sexual activity for payment
and just for now, forget the rest.

by this, my dad interpreted it.
he has always been telling me about how
he thinks that all women are prostitutes.
he has offered to explain,
but i would always turn him down
and simply roll my eyes in disdain.
however, today it was different,
and when i actually asked my dad to carry on,
there was no mistaking the shock that
gathered in his very eyes.

oh he elaborated,
in a very expressive and booming voice.

he told me that by payment,
it does not always mean money.
the gifts men buy
can count as payment.

and when a man provides you
a house,
lots of money,
a job
or anything at all
and all you do is have sex with him...

doesn't that make you a prostitute?

my father, in my opinion, is not right.
but nor is he completely wrong.

his views may seem totally messed up,
but he has a point.
you can see where he is trying to go.
but it is his view,
i don't think he really means it.
but he still thought of it.

never meant to make you judge him.
i bet he did not mean it that way.
he might have just said it
because of how he was feeling that moment.

it may have been a joke.
so do not take it personally.

so all they do is kiss,
and try not to reminisce
the certain bliss
that they finally miss
and now know that exists.

<3 atoning for all the offense,
averyoffensivejazz

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desperate desires. / Monday, May 26, 2008 @ 8:50 PM {"all women are prostitutes" he says} \|what does that make men, then?\| whores and sluts. the difference? whores do it for money. for cash. for glamour. for something in return. but sluts do it because they want to not because they need to, because they enjoy it. which is worse? it really is your decision. i was talking to my father the other day. it was a casual thing. and we happened to be talking about, [guess what?] whores and sluts. he thinks that all women are prostitutes. [please do not take any offense, he is just an old man voicing out his opinion. and i am female, will soon become a woman. so i should be offended, but i was not. however, that does not mean i fully agree with him.] before you complain and whine about how stupid that comment is, just listen to his explanation. and it is his opinion. his view. and although he may be biased because of what he has experienced, he believes it. now the definition of a prostitute (according to wiktionary) is : prostitute (plural prostitutes) A person who performs sexual activity for payment A person who is perceived as engaging in sexual activity with many people. A person who does, or offers to do, an activity for money, despite personal dislike or dishonour take a close look at the very first line : A person who performs sexual activity for payment and just for now, forget the rest. by this, my dad interpreted it. he has always been telling me about how he thinks that all women are prostitutes. he has offered to explain, but i would always turn him down and simply roll my eyes in disdain. however, today it was different, and when i actually asked my dad to carry on, there was no mistaking the shock that gathered in his very eyes. oh he elaborated, in a very expressive and booming voice. he told me that by payment, it does not always mean money. the gifts men buy can count as payment. and when a man provides you a house, lots of money, a job or anything at all and all you do is have sex with him... doesn't that make you a prostitute? my father, in my opinion, is not right. but nor is he completely wrong. his views may seem totally messed up, but he has a point. you can see where he is trying to go. but it is his view, i don't think he really means it. but he still thought of it. never meant to make you judge him. i bet he did not mean it that way. he might have just said it because of how he was feeling that moment. it may have been a joke. so do not take it personally. so all they do is kiss, and try not to reminisce the certain bliss that they finally miss and now know that exists. <3 atoning for all the offense, averyoffensivejazz
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